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Home» Fashion » Beating the Nothing to Wear Blues

Beating the Nothing to Wear Blues

August 30, 2010 | by Fajr | Fashion, Personal Style | 12 Comments

Standing in front of my closet, thumbing through dress after dress nothing sparking my fancy. A wash of sadness and frustration came over me. The clothes before me were uninspiring  and I was tired of looking at them, let alone wearing them, day in and day out. My denim was dull, my frocks a failure and shoes a bore. My wardrobe is more tired than a no good, cheating man, lost my dog, country anthem. It’s clear I have the “Nothing to Wear” blues.

Fashion Gone Rogue

Not those Jeans Again!

We’ve all been there. Our wardrobe has lost its luster. Every item of clothing feels outdated and frankly you feel stylishly uninspired. You’re reaching for the same jeans day in and day out and  you’re feeling the urge to go out and drop some hard-earned cash on new duds because you’re convinced that everything in your closet is tragically unwearable.

As we change and our style evolves, we outgrow items of clothing that we once loved. Compound that with living in a society where mass consumption is celebrated and you have a recipe for a constant feeling of the “Nothing to Wear” blues.

Before you go out and buy more clothes that you’ll be tired of in 6 months time, take some time to think about what you want your style to say. With a little examination and ingenuity you can unearth those hidden gems lurking behind that moldy t shirt you wore 3 times this week (I won’t judge).

How to beat the Nothing to Wear Blues

Assess Your Wardrobe

Before you decide to scrap the lot of your closet and donate it to Goodwill, take an inventory of what you own. So often great items get pushed to the back of our closets (and our minds) and we forget about that amazing cashmere sweater you only wore once. Taking a day to clean out your closet, organize clothes into various categories and try things you haven’t worn in awhile can rekindle your love affair with your clothes.

*Take note of holes in your wardrobe. If you’re a denim lover and only have 2 pairs of jeans you may need to invest in a few more pairs for variety.

Remix your Outfits

While your getting busy playing dressup, mix items that you wouldn’t normally wear together. By mixing and matching pieces you already own, you’ll create new looks that can serve to rejuvenate your wardrobe without spending a dime. Additionally, knowing what works ahead of time will save you from the dreaded morning dress mad dash.

Rethink your Style

Sometimes the Nothing to Wear Blues is less about the clothes you own and more about your own insecurity with your style. If you’re uncertain about your style or developing your look, it may feel like what you own doesn’t mesh with who you are. To avoid having a wardrobe of clothes that you can’t relate to over time, avoid buying tons of trendy pieces. Stock up for well suited basics that you can build any look off of as your style develops.

Do Selective Shopping

Once you’ve examined your wardrobe and have given your clothes a second chance, you can shop selectively, buying items that fit and work with your existing pieces and build a wardrobe full of stuff you love as opposed to pieces that leave you feeling like you have nothing to wear.

How do you deal with the “Nothing to Wear” blues?

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12 comments on “Beating the Nothing to Wear Blues”

  1. Minister of Style says:
    August 31, 2010 at 9:50 am

    If you have not just described me and how I am feeling then I don’t know who! I am not even blogging because of it, thank you for this post. I will follow your suggestions and rethink my options. Now that we are at the change of a new season, this is definitely in order.

    Reply
    • Fajr says:
      August 31, 2010 at 10:22 am

      The new season should definitely breath new life into our wardrobe! Thanks for the comment!

      Reply
  2. a stylized hysteria says:
    August 31, 2010 at 6:57 pm

    I recently posted about feeling like this. I think most fashion lovers are experiencing summer fatigue and are ready for fall. Having said that, your advice is spot on. I’ve been trying to remix some of my items and pull out stuff I’ve been avoiding. I really want to avoid buying a bunch of stuff that I won’t like after a few months!

    Reply
    • Fajr says:
      September 1, 2010 at 6:56 am

      It definitely is summer fatigue. I think we’re all longing for Fall colors and are just restless with the heat and limited options of summer!

      Reply
  3. Jenny says:
    September 1, 2010 at 9:53 pm

    Fantastic post! So inspiring! Thank you!

    Reply
  4. Hairstyling » Hautelinks: Week of 9/2/10 says:
    September 2, 2010 at 7:22 pm

    [...] Beating the Nothing to Wear Blues, from Stylish Thought. Self-explanatory! [...]

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  5. Faith says:
    September 2, 2010 at 8:42 pm

    I tried to take pictures of everything I owned so that I could see everything a little more easily and pick out more things that I don’t wear, but I couldn’t find a good way to sort it all out. Does anyone know of any good database programs for this sort of thing? I don’t think Access or OpenOffice Base support photos.

    Reply
    • Fajr says:
      September 3, 2010 at 5:57 am

      Faith, I don’t know of any software, but My Style Diary is an photosharing site and you could upload your pictures there to organize them. Thanks for the comment!

      Reply
  6. sha says:
    September 3, 2010 at 6:32 am

    THIS IS THE EPITOME OF HOW IM FEELING RITE NOW!! I really think we owe it to ourselves to asses the inner self and not the outter shell all the time cus 10/10 its eternal. Thanks for the post chek out my blog at NMYSISTERSCLOSET.BLOGSPOT.COM

    Reply
    • Fajr says:
      September 3, 2010 at 6:50 am

      Sha, I couldn’t agree more! Thanks for the comment

      Reply
  7. sha says:
    September 4, 2010 at 2:43 pm

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  8. Hautelinks: Week of 9/2/10 | Secret Sales Online says:
    September 4, 2010 at 3:37 pm

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