We live in a marriage obsessed culture! It seems that in any good relationship, marriage is the barometer of true success. You’ve been with your fella for a few years and watch the inquires start to pour in, “Soooooo, when are you two getting hitched?” What is this, the Spanish Inquisition? It seems that any [...]
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Some days I’m sweet as pie; other days I’m moody and can be a hellbent you know what. I’m a mood-based creature and my personality is made up of so many fragmented pieces that converge to make me who I am. Loving, yes! Silly, all the time! Emo, on a bad day! Anxious, only when [...]
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“I’ve had heartaches, headaches, toothaches, earaches, and I’ve had a few pains in the ass; but I’ve survived to tell about it.” – Dolly Parton In every life a little heartbreak must fall. Falling in love is a part of life and much to our disappointment so is falling out of love. It happens and often times [...]
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If you watch enough romantic comedies or read enough Cosmo, you’ll be led to believe that women are either: A) Unlovable Lepers B) Whiny, needy and pathetic C) Waiting on a man to save them Well you know what I say to that; BULLOCKS! For every love starved fictional female character, there is a kick [...]
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Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world- Lucille Ball On my 16th birthday my Aunt gave me an Iyanla Vanzant book titled ‘Don’t Give It Away’. The book was part self-help, part self-esteem workbook that I devoured. I did all [...]
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“And my wolf pack, it grew by one. So were two… so there was two of us in the pack. I…I was alone first in the pack, and then Doug joined in later”~ The Hangover No woman is an island and contrary to what popular music would have us believe Ms. Independent has a team [...]
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Cultivating female-centric friendships is one of the most important journeys in a woman’s life. However, as essential as it is to our growth and development so many of us have lackadaisical friendships and/or are engaging in negative relationships for the sake of “friendship”. {FYI: You don’t have to kill to be bonded} Society would have [...]
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“Fathers be good to your daughters Daughters will LOVE like you do Girls become lovers, who turn into mothers So mothers be GOOD to your daughters too”— -John Mayer “Daughters” Father’s Day is always particularly hard for me. My father isn’t in my life and every Sear’s “Buy Dad a lawnmower/grill/tools” commercial reminds me of that sad [...]
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